Freely Offended
I have noticed over the span of my career that no matter how politely you decline the opportunity to work for someone for free, invariably they will be offended that you had the audacity to reject their generous offer.
Read MoreSecret Shortcuts That We Aren’t Telling
People confuse “secret” and “shortcut” all the time. “What is the secret to losing weight?” “What is the secret to being successful?” “What is the secret to getting published?” “What is the secret to breaking in to the industry?” What they are really asking is “What is the shortcut?” And we all know the answer…
Read MoreMeasured Cutting
A good rule of thumb to live by is measure everything you are about to cut at least twice. This is the old saw (pun intended) that you hear in woodworking. But it applies equally well to almost every other worthwhile endeavour you will undertake from software development to cooking. Any act that consumes a…
Read MoreFoster or adopt?
If you have the ability, adopting the position of “I need a job, I just don’t need THIS job” and that you have other options and limited patience, use it. Do it politely, of course. That said I told a recruiter at Disney after a month of being yanked around “You either need to shit,…
Read MoreGet in, hang on and shut up
You need to be a participant in your life rather than a passive passenger.
Read MoreNo longer a common commodity
If you don’t act like a commodity, people won’t treat you like a commodity. By setting yourself apart, by indicating your unique values and contributions and skill set, you move from commodification to unique opportunity. When you are a commodity, I can replace you for someone faster and cheaper and (possibly) better (however I measure…
Read MoreEspresso Without Pressure
Drop me a line at justin@justinlloyd.org if you want to grab a “no pressure” coffee and just talk about cool technology and neat ideas in S.F. or San Jose this weekend.
Read MoreGood Question!
The question is not who will let me, but is in fact, who will stop me.
Read MoreI hate jobs that mean I have to work
People confuse “work” and “job” all the time. “Work is something you want to do.” “A job is something you have to do.” I wonder who sowed this confusion among us. Was it the workers? Or the people who want to give us jobs?
Read More2 million things I hate about you
If you have a modicum of reputation, if you are known, however minor, for anything, there will be people who don’t know you who don’t like you. We make judgments about others based on information to hand. We make those judgments from either stated facts or something synthesized from those facts. The judgments aren’t always…
Read MorePerfect as you are
Your inner perfectionist manifests as an outward inability to deliver value.
Read MoreThe value of caring
Attention to detail does not mean perfectionism. Perfectionism is a form a procrastination. “I’m a perfectionist” is to claim “I have trouble letting go. I have trouble shipping. I cannot deliver value to your organization because I cannot deliver value to your customer.” Attention to detail is saying, loud, and clear, “I care.” I care…
Read MoreI keep hearing a lot of excuses
You can be proud of the work you did, or you can make excuses for it.
Read MoreIt’s no longer a secret
I’ve often talked and written about people wanting to know the secret. The secret to losing weight. The secret to being a success. The secret to getting funded. The secret to getting started. And I’ve equated that question “what is the secret?” to a one dimensional train of thought “What is the shortcut?” But I…
Read MoreIndefinite growth
To do lists are not meant to grow indefinitely. Once a to do list grows to a dozen or so items, especially if those items are related, the to do list has transformed in to a small project, and should be treated as such.
Read MoreBossing around
I’ve met way too many people who want to be the boss and very few who want to be the leader. The distinct difference between the two is that one imperiously tells you what you should be doing and the other one works alongside you to show you what you should be doing.
Read MorePersonal Development Marketing Slogans
The secret to getting started? Just do it. It’s not just something you read on an advertising billboard.
Read MoreThe Long View
It’s easy to manipulate people if they’re only looking for short-term gains even if the manipulation is not in their long-term self-interest. It’s harder to manipulate someone when they have more long-term viewpoints than short-term viewpoints.
Read MoreWisely Procrastinating
When you look for edge cases in a wise statement you are really looking for reasons to procrastinate or reasons why it won’t work – which is really the same thing.
Read MorePreferred Contact
“Hello, you’ve reached the voicemail of Justin Lloyd. When you hear the beep, hang up, and text me instead.”
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